Emotional neglect in childhood can lead an adult into an abusive relationship, as the adult seeks emotional connection from people who only cause a repeat of the emotional neglect. While Wangari had a successful sales career and a life that looked admirable from the outside, in private, she was battling people-pleasing and did not know how to ask for help for fear of being told no. Then, when Wangari had the courage to walk out of an abusive relationship, the support she needed the most was not provided in the way she expected it.
Take Up Space is a memoir that is a product of Wangari’s courage to find her voice and a commitment to learning why a person’s mind shapes the life they have. Wangari found that to build a life that she could call hers, she had to upset some people and be comfortable being called difficult and unreasonable for making bold and authentic choices.
Take Up Space is a combination of the most profound lessons learned in pursuit of purpose and happiness. It is a story written with an appreciation of doing the inner work, sharing growth mindset anecdotes on how to use your current strengths to create a life you love, regardless of your circumstances or geographical location. Wangari shares a practical and approachable perspective on personal development and success.
Collins Gichuki –
Take Up Space is a compelling and deeply personal memoir about resilience and self-discovery. Wangari opens up about her struggles with emotional neglect and the unhealthy relationships that followed, ultimately finding strength in learning to trust her voice. Her journey highlights the importance of standing up for yourself, making bold decisions, and freeing yourself from the constraints of societal expectations.
I found this book both relatable and inspiring. Wangari’s raw reflection on how emotional neglect influenced her choices and relationships is eye-opening, and her journey toward self-empowerment is motivating. One of the most impactful messages of the book is that true growth requires rejecting external pressures and living according to your standards, even when it means facing discomfort or misunderstanding. It’s a reminder that mistakes and challenges are a natural part of the process, and how we learn and move forward matters most.
Wangari doesn’t just share her story; she intertwines it with valuable life lessons, making the book a practical guide to personal development. Her perspective on success – rooted in inner growth and self-awareness – offers a refreshing alternative to conventional notions of achievement. Take Up Space encourages readers to trust themselves, assert their needs, and unapologetically claim their space in the world.
This memoir is a powerful reminder of the importance of self-love, self-advocacy, and embracing life’s imperfections. It’s an inspiring read for anyone looking to break free from old patterns and build a life that reflects their true desires.
Evlyne Muchiri –
changes how you see life really. a good read.