Finding Zoe, the debut memoir by Jean Mwongela, is a raw, honest account of what happens when life refuses to follow the script we have written for it. Jean had, like many of us, built a vision of what a complete life would look like: the right education, the right career, the right family. Then, in 2012, she and her husband welcomed a baby girl, Zoey Nzilani Mwongela, born premature. Zoey lived for 63 days.